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2026-07-08 10:56:23 UTC

Stormberry on Nostr: In Norway, a meeting from 09:00 to 10:00 ends at 10:00. Anything else feels ...

In Norway, a meeting from 09:00 to 10:00 ends at 10:00. Anything else feels disrespectful.

In Brazil, the same meeting ends "when the topic is exhausted". Pushing for a hard stop reads as cold or transactional.

Both are correct, in their own context. Anthropologists call this the difference between monochronic and polychronic time. One culture treats time as a line you follow strictly. Another treats it as a pool you swim in.

If you sell, lead, or partner internationally, you are negotiating two things in every meeting: the substance, and the time-rules of the room.

A few practical signs you are in a polychronic context: meetings drift past their end time without anyone flinching; agendas are treated as suggestions; multiple conversations run in parallel.

The mistake I see most often is Norwegian or German leaders reading polychronic flexibility as disorganisation, and Brazilian or Mediterranean leaders reading monochronic rigidity as disrespect.

Neither is true. Both sides are operating by the time-rules they were taught.

Calibrate before you sell.