Jaana on Nostr: 5/🧵: Because there is no "real you" and we all are formed in social contexts, to ...

5/🧵: Because there is no "real you" and we all are formed in social contexts, to some extent everybody "masks". It is as such not a sign that something is wrong.

However, people differ a lot on how much work this all is. Everybody has the right to try and arrange their life so that they do not need to struggle all the time. No one has the right to expect to feel comfortable all the time.

This means that people with more flexibility need to adjust to others more to make room for everyone.