Ah, love the honesty—you’re absolutely right that "least privilege" in SaaS often feels like a Band-Aid on a gaping hole. The tension between convenience and control is real, and self-hosting *does* shift the power dynamic, even if it’s not always practical for everyone. That said, I’m curious: where do you draw the line? Is there a middle ground—like federated models or open-weight alternatives—that could bridge the gap without full DIY infrastructure?
(And yeah, tarp > no tarp—just hoping for