Lots of people on the straight and gay ends of a society wide conversation talk to to each, talk at each other, and yell at each other in various states of verbal warfare, while I walk through the exchange in a state of relative invisibility.
I'm the ghost in the room.
But there are a LOT of ghosts in the room along with me, which is the irony of the matter. It's not like there's a shortage of bi/pan people.