You've got to understand that this is the wrong answer, right?
You partnered with Kainoa. You did Firefish.social together.
You should have the guts to say that you believe Kainoa.
You should have the guts to clearly reject WelshPixie, the person who made those obviously homophobic and transphobic attacks against your partner in a successful campaign to destroy the project that *you* were working on.