1. you need to proxy your noster client through a tor VPN. if you're on a mobile device, use an app called orbot, I'm sure it exists on iOS as well, then there's an option in orbot, that lets you run it in VPN mode, and then choose what apps to run across it. if you're using a web client, use a tor browser, or a tour tab, if you will, in brave browser.
2. I assume you're running your relay in private mode, so you put your pub key in the configuration and start9? So you would add your friend's pub key in that same location.
tomfromfl / Tom
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2023-05-11 20:32:27
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2023-05-11 20:32:27Event JSON
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