eden.nostr.land
relay.orangepill.dev
puravida.nostr.land
relay.nostriches.org
nostr.wine
nostr.plebchain.org
nostr.gives.africa
bitcoiner.social
Follow these 'paid' relays. 7-8 is ideal, IMO. Can expect paid relays to be robust and last long. Can't rely on free relays. They might shut shop next month.