I a word, patience. This is a protocol (more on this later) unlike any that have existed before. It's being built as we use and test it. It's completely unlike Twitter and the engagement is far more organic and open than any other app like this.
There's a strong learning curve here. Which is why we all help each other.
Start here. Go slow. Get ready to learn. Ask questions when needed.
Connect a Lightning wallet asap.
https://nostr-resources.com/