And... I don't mean that I'm a "good fatty" so please be nice to me, uwu
(more on Good Fatties here: https://stacybias.net/2014/06/12-good-fatty-archetypes/)
Like, being fat is fine. All body types are OK. There are many many reasons why people are fat. There may be some small number of people who do choose and try to remain some level of overweight, for many reasons. So what.
I just hate that when I'm trying to improve my life and go seeking help, or sharing what's going on, I have to bat away *so many* assumptions.