nora 🦝 :baba_it_its: :baba_gay2: :heart_ancom: on Nostr: Lately i've been thinking about how terms like "non-binary" and "agender" are defined ...

Lately i've been thinking about how terms like "non-binary" and "agender" are defined by the absence of something (gender binary and gender itself respectively) and how that results in actually... nothing because something cannot exist on the base of something else not existing. That doesn't make sense.

I think to me personally the most important thing is that i don't wanna be assigned male nor female. I don't want to take part in this piece of culture that led to nothing but oppression and limitating possibilities of ways of life, feeling, thinking and in the end, being. Beyond that i actually don't have that much of a need to define myself. I like being just a human and i think we stress ourselves too much about gender. To me personally assinging myself one feels like putting myself into a box.

What if it is just a way to describe people's personalities? What if we're just making a fuss about it as a reaction to the oppressive rules cis people and patriarchy came up with? Doesn't that mean we wouldn't even be talking about it if cis people didn't invent it in the first place? You can describe people in lots of other ways. Some are good in math and programming, others love doing art in one or another way while some like building and designing houses and interior or define themselves by their characteristics such as honesty, openness or the willingness to compromise or political concepts even.

Anyway, i have yet to find a way to describe myself because i feel some kind of pressure to do so or rather: That's what others do. But the main thing i want is to tell that i'm queer as in questioning the status quo of society and that other queer people are safe around me.