Dr. M on Nostr: Motivation - such a worn-out term nowadays. And everyone is looking for an answer on ...

Motivation - such a worn-out term nowadays. And everyone is looking for an answer on how to motivate themselves. For anything, a healthier life, a better job, a better relationship...

And the answer is very simple:
Obviously we don't want it badly enough.
We are not hungry enough.
We are not in bad enough health.
We are not unhappy enough in the relationship.

We are afraid of an uncertain future if we decide to change.
The lack of a clear goal, proper leadership and work plan are topics in themselves.

And precisely fear, laziness and inertness are the biggest reasons why most people waste this gift we were born with.
And no matter how much we whine, we are happy in that comfort zone. And apparently everything is not as bad as we say.

Because if it really was, we would probably start, right?
Or do we love and appreciate each other so little? Maybe for some reason we like to suffer? Do we think we don't deserve to be happy?

Think carefully about these words, but I believe that if you are honest with yourself, you already know the answer.
The problem is that obviously, we still haven't hit the bottom.
Because that bottom is the biggest motivator, of course, for those who don't give up.
By hitting the bottom we can only go up from there.