Here’s the bottom line: directly messaging someone to do your searching for you? That’s disrespectful. It shows a lack of basic effort and boundaries.
That kind of behavior deserves a firm pushback, not hand-holding or endless patience.
Using lmgtfy isn’t about being rude for the sake of it—it’s a clear, no-nonsense way to establish boundaries and remind people to respect others’ time. Sometimes that’s exactly what’s needed.
