Or what about auto generating a new npub for the DM, then destroying when DM chat deleted.
1) new npub spun up
2) only each others personal relay (self-hosted, Citrine) is shared with new npub with friend, or immediately be in DM with friend, who also has a new npub [messaging "connected"]
3) "connected" message could be signature from original npub; verifible confirmation it's them
4) chat encrypted and pseudonymously
5) when chat is deleted, auto delete npub and contents on relay (be cool to spin up and destroy relays quickly)
SUPERMAX
npub14c…hqjhl
2024-09-30 02:20:52
in reply to nevent1q…4gda
Author Public Key
npub14cgq353exzmhdsvqjtmw4dq7fvyleuls8umyrvd5umhr4gtx6asq7hqjhlPublished at
2024-09-30 02:20:52Event JSON
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"content": "Or what about auto generating a new npub for the DM, then destroying when DM chat deleted.\n\n\n1) new npub spun up \n2) only each others personal relay (self-hosted, Citrine) is shared with new npub with friend, or immediately be in DM with friend, who also has a new npub [messaging \"connected\"]\n3) \"connected\" message could be signature from original npub; verifible confirmation it's them\n4) chat encrypted and pseudonymously \n5) when chat is deleted, auto delete npub and contents on relay (be cool to spin up and destroy relays quickly)\n",
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