Buffy the Psych Prof on Nostr: I just read how important candid photos of you become to your loved ones after you ...

I just read how important candid photos of you become to your loved ones after you die—the pics that caught you laughing, or that you think are unflattering because they caught you mid sentence. And I felt this horrible crush in my heart because as a single woman/mom, there are almost none of these of me. Even when I *was* married or paired up, they never took pics of me. My existence is mostly documented in the rare formal photos with my daughter or selfies. Dudes, take pics of your wives.