cloud fodder on Nostr: where are these magical relays where you pay 21 sats for your fren, to join a no spam ...

where are these magical relays where you pay 21 sats for your fren, to join a no spam intro relay? 🍄 nostr21.com

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But where are these magical relays? There's always some major drawback, like payment required or WoT of one guy. These are essentially just relays with whitelists.