The thing that frustrates me most about all discussions involving European Aid for Ukraine is that it is highly likely that if Ukraine fails, Putin won't stop there, and the rest of Europe could self-destruct politically, and Russia will continue it's attempts to extend its borders.
Up until now we've had debates about whether to support Ukraine, and by how much, whilst ignoring that Ukrainians have been left to fight alone, not just for themselves, but for all of us.