...In our household, we didn't put a star on our christmas tree because we simply didn't celebrate it as a Christian holiday. 🤷♀️
Why am I telling all this?
Because I feel a holiday doesn't have to have the meaning imposed on you by wider society. It's what you make of it, how you feel about it and you enoying it what counts.
Thanksgiving is a holiday with heavy baggage for sure, but I don't think having thanksgiving dinner is the worst thing one can do.