🐙ptoothfish🐙 on Nostr: if you ARE a pākehā male "of any age" struggling with disconnection and a lack of ...

if you ARE a pākehā male "of any age" struggling with disconnection and a lack of cultural identity, i recommend strongly that you start with your local library, archives, and records institutions (eg The Hocken, births/deaths/marriage, municipal cemetery and cremation records) BEFORE you share your deepest insecurities AND your email address with a stranger posting QR codes at the mall