I did for many years. Full exclusion.
I'm a cold hearted monster I guess. The way I see it I know I bring value by being around. Why would I exchange my value for the presence of someone who is a net negative to keep around?
Some people deserve another chance and some don't. Not everyone has to be the best person in your life to be in your life. I just see a lot of parents leverage guilt from childhood and then the kids let the parents keep hurting them because of that guilt.
