When you are in a relationship and something needs to be done, whether it is resolving a conflict or seizing an opportunity, and you have multiple paths forward, how do you decide which option to take? How do you determine what is good for both you and your wife?
My position is simple: as a man, always choose the option that puts you in the role of decision-maker. Do not be passive.
That is the posture of leadership. When you decide, you lead. And when you lead, you bear the greatest share of responsibility, and thus gain the greatest control over the outcome.
Look at any situation and ask: Which path places the most responsibility on me?
Then choose that one.
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