And I have to be honest, with my own personal life changes in recent years, I just don't really feel as much of a connection to the lisp "community" anymore as I used to.
In general I feel much less comfortable in places stuffed to the brim with men. Not that I feel like I'm necessarily in danger or anything like that, but I just don't really feel connected is more the point.
I kinda want to spend my very limited social energy and money on other things these days.