I also mainly enjoyed sex with my first gf, and maybe the next 2-3 girls after that. From then on I lost interest because as you say there is no connection. As Jay says "it's all the same box" but not in a good way. Sex in a relationship felt good - casual sex felt meaningless and a bit depressing to be honest - like I was around a vampire draining my life away.
It makes me think back to your "1-4 body count is most attractive" paper. It may be that for most of us we are just not meant to exceed that - there are certainly evolutionary reasons that might be so. Excessively promiscuous people are probably wired differently (mentally ill) and I have no interest in that.
Even longtime PUA Girls Chase was forced to admit (in a roundabout way - he was making some point about how men need women to complete them) that men mainly do this for the approval of other men. But the people who judge you for whether you chase girls or not are retarded and you do not have to associate with them.
No judgement for those readers who are PUAs, married or whatever, do your own thing, but I only wish they would return the favor of no judgements. Instead what we find is judgy PUAs, sanctimonious wife guys and the like. If they were so sure of their choices would they need to be so damned preachy and pushy?
Prince Aleph
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