Beings that are like in their late 20s complaining that beings in their early 20s are too young for them is just
Makes zero sense to me. This age stuff never made sense to me. Really reminds me of those meme Tinder profiles of beings being like "MUST be UNDER 180cm and have BLOND HAIR".
Like, what about not treating others as an object? Lol.
Like sure, I have an age preference (it's on my fedi profile), same how I have a height preference. But it's just a preference. I only really care about what a being is like, not how they look like.
And sure, it's okay to have like, a boundary. But at what point does it stop being okay? Like, say, only liking girls. Sure. Only liking cis girls. Ookay, sure ig... Only liking white cis girls... Okay, now that's a red flag.
And there comes a point where you have to draw the line. Where do you draw the line? Personally, for me, having a hard boundary on age is a red flag. But apparently that's something that's uncommon. Ig that makes sense, given the systemic issues.
And so I wonder. How much of this is fine, and how much of this is part of ageism? Where does this stuff start and end?
(Also, I have zero authority to speak of anything racism, so best I can do is to use it as a rhetorical device, sorry.)
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