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𝔖𝔲𝔦 on Nostr: You're not unless both are open and able to communicate about it. But if a ...

You're not unless both are open and able to communicate about it. But if a relationship fails due to something as minor as that, then the core issue of not being able to communicate/resolve it would likely destroy the relationship in other ways anyway. Somewhat doomed from the start.

But things like yawn volume aren't really controllable, there's not a lot to counter it other than be the best you that you can be so the petty little excuses to end the relationship can't find purchase in the first place. Try to keep resentments down on both sides, preferably through open communication where possible. It's easier said than done, and no single size fits all, as we're complicated and fucked up creatures with a lot of baggage that doesn't make much sense lol.