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IMO there is a bifurcation between the two reasons women engage with men, where during the Middle Ages they were united, but in tribal times and today they are distinctly split
The optimal female reproductive strategy, minus a male patriarchal reproduction cartel (the ye olde Catholic Church) is:
1. Mate with a 5% bad boy and have his biological children
2. Marry a nice guy and have him pay for you & your biological children (cuckoldry)