laanwj on Nostr: wraaaah looks like momostr literally queries all the relays from api.nostr.watch, ...

wraaaah looks like momostr literally queries all the relays from api.nostr.watch, then sends their deletion queue there 🤷‍♀️
so even if you have a small relay you're bombarded with thousands of deletion requests per day from them

here's the code:
https://github.com/nanikamado/momostr/blob/main/src/event_deletion_queue.rs#L58

quoting
nevent1q…ym89

fwiw, after deleting all kind 5 events in `SELECT event_id FROM tag WHERE name="L" and value="pink.momostr"`, there are 72 left and it's wayy down the list

now i need a way to block these before they're even inserted 🙂