Good question. Victim narrative is definitely a form of self harm. How much of the harm you are experiencing today is actually a scar from the thing and how much is ongoing harm from the victim narrative?
I'd bet the ratio varies but would make you pretty uncomfortable if it could be objectively measured.
Bill Cypher
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