I am a relay GOD:
I have my 2 private relays:
Umbrel
Start9
I have my own public (paid relay):
https://nortis.nostr1.com/
I pay for:
https://nostr.wine/ (filter)
And I use free:
wss://relay.primal.net
wss://nos.lol
wss://relay.getalby.com/v1
wss://eden.nostr.land
wss://relay.mostr.pub
wss://nostr.land
wss://relay.damus.io
wss://nostr.wine
wss://nostr.mutinywallet.com (blast relay)