3小时前
来自 微博轻享版
如果你的外在条件不亮眼，就不要通过长辈或相亲找对象，很容易把自己贬得一文不值。这就好比一个大专生去给知名大厂投简历，hr 那关都过不了，真有技术实力也得先让内部的技术人员知道才可能过关。我的前任和最近几年认识的女生都是97-99年的，之前说了两次想当我岳父的老朋友，他女儿也是99年的。
@zhh-4096
我极少跟家人聊找女朋友的话题，所以我在我家人的眼里就是很难讨老婆的。上个月我妈在医院住了一周，太远了我又头晕没去看，我姐就住附近。旁边的病友是个80多的老人家，她外孙女28岁，单身，来病房探望时，两个老人就互聊家常，说我40多了也单身，死皮赖脸要人家的微信，结果人家不给，嫌老。真丢人！
4小时前
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npub19y…8djan
2026-09-27 13:52:41 UTC
in reply to nevent1q…ndhu
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