Scoundrel on Nostr: I have a question. What if you make yourself into someone that's good for Digit to ...

I have a question. What if you make yourself into someone that's good for Digit to talk to, and Digit finds you, but why doesn't KNOW that you would be good for her to talk to? Would you expect her to invest the time and effort required to understand your work? Is there a world where two compatible people are better off not interacting due to circumstances outside of either of their control?