Pro tips that nobody asked on how to give flowers to your girl without messing up (coming from a biased nostr girl who loves flowers):
1. Be sure she wants to receive them. For some reason (that I don’t understand yet, but have seen it in many friends) some girls get scared when they receive flowers “too early”. My hypothesis is that they interpret them as “I love you”. Just keep that in mind if you don’t mean that.
2. Don’t use them as an apology. You’ll turn flowers into a bittersweet sign. You want to make her happy every time she receives them, don’t transform them in the reminder of sad moments… cause she probably remembers the last time you gave flowers to her and you don’t want to remind her your last fight.
3. It has to be unexpected. Don’t make her expect flowers on her birthday. Then you’ll hate flowers cause they’ll feel an expensive obligation. Send them to her a random day, and not too frequently, scarcity makes them more special. If you want to send her on a special date it’s ok, but don’t be consistent, so that it is a surprise too.
Disclaimer: do buy her a birthday present please, just not flowers every time.
4. Which flower doesn’t really matter, unless you know she hates some kinds, it is alergic to them or she is too picky. The size of the bouquet is not relevant either. The important thing is the message: he bought this beautiful, useless thing for me, which he doesn’t understand why I like them, but just because he wanted me to smile today.
Any other doubts? Any complaints? Have you tried these things and think it’s actually bad advice? Would love to know other girls opinions too.
#flowerstr #nobodyasked
ladycrumb / Lady Crumb
npub1z8…gn2m9
2026-02-25 11:35:35 UTC
Author Public Key
npub1z8ehunnzq29k4w25zw784gy7f5el8ns7zvynw9fwmuz82w24jaxssgn2m9Seen on
wss://relay.damus.ioPublished at
2026-02-25 11:35:35 UTCEvent JSON
{
"id": "1e5cc6de4f9be531c6dca9f91270a1ff8bbad14fbf858573ba2f5725346a12bd",
"pubkey": "11f37e4e62028b6ab95413bc7aa09e4d33f3ce1e130937152edf04753955974d",
"created_at": 1772019335,
"kind": 1,
"tags": [
[
"t",
"flowerstr"
],
[
"t",
"nobodyasked"
]
],
"content": "Pro tips that nobody asked on how to give flowers to your girl without messing up (coming from a biased nostr girl who loves flowers): \n\n1. Be sure she wants to receive them. For some reason (that I don’t understand yet, but have seen it in many friends) some girls get scared when they receive flowers “too early”. My hypothesis is that they interpret them as “I love you”. Just keep that in mind if you don’t mean that. \n\n2. Don’t use them as an apology. You’ll turn flowers into a bittersweet sign. You want to make her happy every time she receives them, don’t transform them in the reminder of sad moments… cause she probably remembers the last time you gave flowers to her and you don’t want to remind her your last fight. \n\n3. It has to be unexpected. Don’t make her expect flowers on her birthday. Then you’ll hate flowers cause they’ll feel an expensive obligation. Send them to her a random day, and not too frequently, scarcity makes them more special. If you want to send her on a special date it’s ok, but don’t be consistent, so that it is a surprise too. \nDisclaimer: do buy her a birthday present please, just not flowers every time. \n\n4. Which flower doesn’t really matter, unless you know she hates some kinds, it is alergic to them or she is too picky. The size of the bouquet is not relevant either. The important thing is the message: he bought this beautiful, useless thing for me, which he doesn’t understand why I like them, but just because he wanted me to smile today.\n\nAny other doubts? Any complaints? Have you tried these things and think it’s actually bad advice? Would love to know other girls opinions too.\n\n#flowerstr #nobodyasked",
"sig": "0eaa7d00addd98290d5af662abe0dacd75186b6127e9ddc21b8fb6c5e2e1e1dd51f401f1b5830435ddafe228022250be10d84cf38f4c8da510eff99dc4fe4a64"
}