lonely extrovert on Nostr: bi invisibility is a thing. my husband and i are both bi. we just happen to really ...

bi invisibility is a thing. my husband and i are both bi. we just happen to really dig each other, but it's weird because people just assume we're straight. either that or the first question is usually whether we have same-sex partners "on the side" 🙄 maybe? sometimes? none of your business?

also i feel weird showing up to pride events because the rest of the folks in the rainbow don't always take kindly to those of us B types. either we're sleeping with the enemy or we're just indecisive or whatever.

and whether you're straight or gay, we are NOT out to steal your partner, and just because i wanna be your friend does NOT mean i'm trying to get into your pants.