That is the biggie tbh as it impacts UX so much. Two other things that I think do impact people staying on nostr, with regards to relays are:
1. What's the difference between relays. New users generally don't have a clue which ones are good, necessary to them etc.
2. Adding relays. nobody wants to type in "wss://whatever.stuff" - they want tidy UI, e.g. "this relay is full of cat memes" click Add. Done.
Really appreciate the help and love nostr.
