hat :9front: on Nostr: like if a faggot makes a post about how he's a faggot and you say "haha faggot" ...

like if a faggot makes a post about how he's a faggot and you say "haha faggot" that's one thing.
i'm not mean under my marriage applications post when people say "lol jeetoid lol" because it is objectively funny to point at an object and name it. this is how we teach children words precisely because it is amusing and sticks with you. that the word is "faggot" or "pajeet" instead of "chair" or "door" is immaterial.
but if i post something, going like "gays actually learn their own separate code language called en.wikipedia.org/wiki/polari, and it's so they can communicate without being understood" and some faggot replies with an effortpost about the history of polari and how it was limited to a specific, regional subculture and whatnot, it's not really funny to me for somebody to point at him and say "hahhaa faggot stay mad lol" like that's not the point of his post. either he's wrong or he's right. address the post on those grounds.