I read it as watching them project their fears onto your kids reminds you of how they projected them onto you.
It triggers you all over again when you thought that you had resolved them. The triggering is a reminder that you still have some unresolved pain.
It's not about what they're doing so much as them showing you what's still hurting inside of you.
Brisket
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