I would *NOT* agree with the 1st one Aimai (Ambiguity).
*DIRECT* communication is *BEST *cuz many couples already have major problem communicating and understanding each other as it is.
But this is a cultural thing, I understand.
Indirect communication also builds up resentment. (If she’s slamming drawers, doors, for example)
If there is an issue, it’s best for a Romantic Partner to have a *DIRECT* conversation about that problem rather than suppressing their emotions and anger about the behavior of their partner.
Contrary to what lot of women seem to think (or wishes), men cannot just intuitively figure out WHY she’s angry at him!
And the guy being avoidant — most guys, especially the COWARDLY Manchilds but also depends on their Attachment Style — ONLY PISSES HER OFF MORE usually!
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