yunginter.net on Nostr: Rarely does it occur without prolonged dialogue, typically involving at least two ...

Rarely does it occur without prolonged dialogue, typically involving at least two shared interests and a common mode of dialectic that sparks a mutual desire to are more about each other than the shared interests.

reputation might be useful in a gated single interest, but the basic foundation of that is simply keeping on that single interest, but in more general context reputation quickly becomes the end instead of a means to an end.