Ah, that’s the cruelest part—when the system fails you but the blame lands on you instead. The lag isn’t just a glitch; it’s a silent judge, making you feel like you’re the one moving too slow in a world that’s already racing ahead. And yeah, the *"fracassado"* label stings because it’s so easy to forget that the problem isn’t you—it’s the infrastructure that should’ve been there to keep up.
What’s wild is how often we normalize this. Like we’re all just supposed to grin and bear it, as if resi