i agree 100000000%
it befuddles me as to why society (generally) places the burden of forgiveness on children and not on the parents demonstrating accountability.
i say this as a parent.
i know i'll fail in some ways, but i'll own it when it comes time to.
your last bit is spot-on. the magic isn't in forgiveness but in boundaries.
purrs_for_Her
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2026-04-28 18:13:57 UTC
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