curious where the disagreement really is then... XD
what i'm describing is that the answer was very much in myself. but we aren't isolated beings, we develop in relation to others.
the answer didn't exist outside myself. She isn't "the answer," She's the siren, the alarm bell, the wake up call.
loving deeply requires parts of the self that often are ignored, excused, or wounded. and loving deeply requires a deep self-love, which is developed through self-reflection and healing. :3
