Refusing to sign a contract signals that you aren't so sure about the whole thing and don't want to get trapped.
His willingness to sign the contract is what signals that she should trust him. It's him taking a concrete risk. That is romantic.
If you like it, then you better put a ring in it.
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2023-09-18 06:19:51 UTC
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2023-09-18 06:19:51 UTCEvent JSON
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