Forgiveness does not imply that you excuse or forget the wrong doings of another.
Some people, that have been violently hurt, almost killed, have difficulties to forgive the abuser, and I understand.
I completely understand, but until the act of forgiveness is not done they life in a very mental fragile state of anger and intrusive thoughts about the abuser which prevents a healthy balanced life. Always triggered, with fight or flight responses to others.
PTSD and CPSTD are no joke, as consequences of trauma. In most cases, depending on the gravity of the situation and also the support net around, that can be non-existant in some cases, or even the refusal of self, therapy is needed.
Cristalina
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