Like education. LOCK them into a Government 'approved' system to start the brainwashing early.
Sadly many parents fall for this garbage.
We have 5 kids. All had phones, no curfews (they set their own based on VALUES WE INSTILLED). Virtually no rules - they set their own - learned to THINK. Required to read book "Atlas Shrugged" as young as possible.
ALL straight A students. No drugs. No problems. Two oldest girls Chemical Engineers, 3rd girl Teacher for a year then business owner (owns 3 homes in her mid 20's), 4th kid -boy Materials Engineer, and last boy Electrical Engineer. All graduated with no debt and shit load of cash in bank when they graduated.
Government does NOT know what's best. BTW - all our kids had heavy exposure to Montessori (self teaching/learning and independent thought).
IGNORE the Government - do the opposite!