Roberto von Archimboldi on Nostr: she said it as part of a YouTube essay. She must be well known for me, an old, out of ...

she said it as part of a YouTube essay. She must be well known for me, an old, out of touch man, to have come across it.

I see it in myself all the time, including with the YouTuber: you're bright, engaging and pretty ergo I must fancy you.

It must be bloody awful.

Another terrible failing, whilst I am being confessional, is assuming that women are performing for me, rather than just being themselves in the world