Brisket on Nostr: I was not suggesting you become a saint or put your needs below hers. You can't ...

I was not suggesting you become a saint or put your needs below hers.

You can't change someone's beliefs but their reactions can often act as a mirror for your own issues. I'm saying look at the mirror but don't try to change the reflection.

If severing the connection is the best path forward then that will become clear to you when you make that decision (it will feel like relief). I'd wager there is a deeper lesson here since both your souls chose to be entangled in this life together.