When you constantly feel manipulated by the person for whom you care... how do you try to decide what is reasonable?
Sorry to throw this out into the fediverse. There's just the two of us and it's getting harder and harder to be objective about our situation.
Sometimes I think they can't help themselves, then other times I think I'm enabling this helplessness. They do struggle, but I don't know where that 'line' is...
Meantime, I'm more and more... depressed I suppose...
Beverley
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