Maybe worth checking out this write up from Vitor Pamplona (nprofile…pyug) about setting up relays. I found it helpful in setting mine up on Amethyst.
https://highlighter.com/a/naddr1qvzqqqr4gupzq3svyhng9ld8sv44950j957j9vchdktj7cxumsep9mvvjthc2pjuqywhwumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytnzd96xxmmfdejhytnnda3kjctv9uqqkun9d3shjttnv4682uqus5syj