I made here a quick comparison table, with main features for each LN node implementation. Maybe I missed something or npub19kv88vjm7tw6v9qksn2y6h4hdt6e79nh3zjcud36k9n3lmlwsleqwte2qd (npub19kv…e2qd) knows more and can correct me.
I personally use them both, mostly because I like to test LN wallets and also helping newbies with support.