"oooo Shem has a girlfriend"
Adults would often say shit like that when I was a kid and would hang out with girls my age. Thinking back, I realise that probably caused a lot of issues.
It was embarrassing, and it stopped me from wanting to hang out with girls, they became "other" so even until recently, I wouldn't really be able to be friends with a woman without thinking about the possibility of romance 🤔
I wonder if that's a common thing.
Anyway just my thought of the day, as I self analyse my thoughts, opinions and trace them to their roots.
#therapy #sexism #Childhood #SelfDevelopment
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