Husband came back into my life, saw me as a whole person, and began to help me along the road to recovery.
He was the only person in my life who didn't say words to the effect of, "Why don't you just..." and unload a barrel of unhelpful, unsolicited, blindingly obvious advice I was in no fit state to put into practice because I'd have already done it if I was capable.
I helped him settle in Edinburgh and he helped me get my body, mind and flat together.